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I am a 29 year old woman married to my best friend and love of my life. My husband is 39 and has been diagnosed w/ Male Factor Infertility. I have a diminished ovarian reserve (FSH levels 11.9 & 7.8 ). We have tried IUI's and are now on the path to IVF w/ ICSI. Our third attempt lead us to where we are now. We are now blessed with our miracle son. This is our journey.

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Tuesday, March 30, 2010

It's not your fault, honey...(male factor infertility)

Finding out that I was ok was a relief...But these are not of those moments where you are happy its not you...
My husband is the most supportive, accepting, loyal, and loving person I know. If there is anyone that deserves to be a father, it is him.
It's got to be hard to hear that you are the reason you and your wife are not able to get pregnant. It's not something you wish on anyone. What do you do with that information?
It's not his fault.
One day, shortly after we got his SA results he said "I'm sorry" I said "why" and he said "because I am making this harder for us" He doesn't talk about it much b/c we both feel the need to be positive and strong for eachother....but I know he is feeling guilty or bad about it.
It's not your fault, honey...
These words don't make it better.

http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/video/infertility-limited-women-10027763

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